Discuss how partners can negotiate the risks associated with sexual activity.

Question

What will be an ideal response?

Answer 1

Sex partners must talk about STIs before having sex. If they wait until after having sex, it may be more difficult and they may have already exposed the other person to an STI. Partners should consider talking about STIs in a quiet face-to-face setting, perhaps while taking a walk or on a quiet date together. The conversation should be in person, however, not by way of texting and email, because of the depth of conversation and the details that need to be discussed.
Partners should also prepare themselves emotionally. One may be either defensive or uncomfortable with the discussion, so both need to express their feelings toward each other clearly, which is why the conversation is necessary. To minimize a partner's defensiveness, the supporting partner can offer her own risk factors first and refrain from interrogation tactics. The couple should consider going together if they're being tested for STIs. Getting tested together may remove some of the pressure both are feeling at this time.
Finally, when sex partners start having sex and one notices a symptom of an STI, he or she must tell the other partner immediately. This will be an upsetting time, but by gently pointing out the symptom(s) and discussing their concerns about health and well-being, the partners are paving the way to a healthy and enjoyable sexual relationship.