At his wife's request, Gordon has presented to the therapist with his wife to begin couples therapy. In light of the fact that Gordon is profoundly reluctant to begin therapy, how can the therapist best put Gordon at ease about the process?
A) Articulate some of the tangible benefits that Gordon may experience.
B) Remind Gordon that most men tend to be similarly afraid of their feelings.
C) Present some of the consequences for his marriage if he does not participate in therapy.
D) Create a reward system whereby Gordon receives a benefit for each therapy session he attends.
Ans: A
Male clients may have a reluctance to participate in therapy, and this may be addressed by articulating benefits of participation. A reward system is likely ineffective and patronizing, while accusing the man of being afraid of his feelings is likely to create further resistance. The therapist should normally avoid making threats of negative consequences.
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