When Americans and Europeans are asked about their motivations for parenthood, what are the most frequent advantages and disadvantages they list?

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What will be an ideal response?

Answer 1

Answer: Although some ethnic and regional differences exist, in all groups highly rated reasons for having children include personal rewards—for example, the warm, affectionate relationship and opportunities for care and teaching that children provide. Also frequently mentioned are social and economic returns, such as affirmation of one's adult status and children as a source of caregiving and financial support in later life. Less important, but still mentioned, is a sense of future continuity—having someone to carry on after one's own death. And occasionally, couples look to parenthood as a gratifying opportunity to share in a challenging but important life task and to deepen their relationship. Among disadvantages of parenthood, adults most often cite concerns about role overload (not enough time for both family and work responsibilities), doubts about their own readiness for parenthood, and worries about bringing children into a troubled world. The financial strains of child rearing follow close behind.