Discuss the signs of an abusive teen dating relationship, and what you can do to help someone you think may be in an abusive relationship

Question

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Answer 1

Signs of an abusive teen dating relationship:
- Is one partner afraid of the other or scared to break up?
- Does one partner call the other names, make the other feel stupid, or tell the other that he or she cannot do anything right?
- Is one partner excessively jealous?
- Does one partner tell the other where he or she can and cannot go or whom he or she can and cannot be with or talk to?
- Does one partner tell the other that no one else would ever go out with him or her?
- Is one partner being cut off from friends and family by the other partner?
- Does one partner feel that saying no to sexual activities will result in trouble or danger?
- Does one partner feel pushed or forced into sexual activity?
- Does one partner say that the other caused the abuse?
- Does one partner shove, grab, hit, pinch, hold down, or kick the other?
- Is one partner really nice sometimes and really mean at other times (almost like two different people or personalities)?
- Does one partner make frequent promises to change or say that he or she will never hurt the other again? Does one partner say that the other is "making too big a deal" out of the abuse?

What you can do to help someone you think may be in an abusive relationship:
- Remember, anyone can be a victim.
- If you or someone you know might be affected by relationship violence, look for resources that can provide help. School counselors, parents, teachers, women's shelters, and clergy are all potential sources of assistance.
- Tell someone you trust and whom you feel can intervene, such as a local domestic violence agency. Try to get help as soon as possible before the violence increases.
- By reaching out, you may literally save your own or someone else's life.