The nurse is caring for a hospitalized infant. When the infant begins to cry, the parents report they do not believe in responding too rapidly, as they do not wish to spoil their child

Question

Which response by the nurse is most appropriate?
1. "I agree with your philosophy of child rearing."
2. "There are many studies that support this belief."
3. "Responding quickly to your baby's cries will assist the baby in feeling secure and does not result in a spoiled child."
4. "Children who experience separation anxiety have been spoiled by their parents."

Answer 1

Correct Answer: 3

A timely response to infant crying does not result in a spoiled child. It promotes the infant's sense of security and promotes independence during later stages of development. The nurse should not be offering personal beliefs or philosophies to clients or their families. Concern over "spoiling" infants by promptly responding to their cries is no longer an accepted concept. Research has shown that infants whose mothers respond promptly to their cries during the early months of life cry less at 1 year of age. Children who have received inconsistent nurturing may experience clingy, angry, or distrustful behaviors.