One of your friends claims that traumatic childhood experiences psychologically scar a person forever. What evidence can you produce to dispute this claim?

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What will be an ideal response?

Answer 1

Answer: A good answer will include the following key points.
• Studies show that most children are remarkably resilient, eventually overcoming even the effects of war, serious childhood illness, abusive or alcoholic parents, early deprivation, or sexual molestation. Many of the children who outgrow early deprivation and trauma have easygoing temperaments or personality traits, such as self-efficacy and self-control, that help them roll with even severe punches. They have a secure attachment style, which helps them work through traumatic events in a way that heals their wounds and restores hope and emotional balance.
• If children lack secure attachments with their own parents, they may be rescued by love and attention from their siblings, peers, extended family members, or other caring adults.
• Some have experiences outside the family—in schools, places of worship, or other organizations—that give them a sense of competence, moral support, solace, religious faith, and self-esteem.