Describe the four basic communication problems John Gottman found in his research on marital communication

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Gottman's four basic communication problems are criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling. Criticism involves attacking someone's personality rather than his or her actions: for example, "You're boring!" instead of "Can we do something different?" Contempt is an insult that may be motivated by anger and is intended to hurt the other person: for example, "I never loved you!" Defensiveness is a form of self-justification: for example, "I was only trying to help, but I guess my feelings don't matter!" Stonewalling is a pattern of isolation and withdrawal: for example, verbally or nonverbally saying, "I don't want to talk about this anymore!"

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What will be an ideal response?

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